Category: life and personal essays

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Lessons I’ve learned so far from Insecure…

Like many other black millennials, I am a big fan of the HBO series Insecure. I would honestly have to say it’s one of the most relatable television shows to come out in Black Hollywood in years. And it’s more game-changing given that Issa plays a black girl who is socially awkward. Many times on television, a black girl (especially those of darker skin tones) are releagted to the role of a sassy chick or the best friend of a white girl. (*whispers* I know a bunch of wypipo who apparently watch the show as well) But I appreciate, Issa & Michaela Coel (of Chewing Gum) to have characters where black people can be weird, awkward or nerdy. Hopefully, in the future, there’s a guy answer to Insecure or Chewing Gum that will be just as cringe-worthy to watch. However, in the meantime, let’s talk about last night’s episode (since it’s 2AM on the east coast right now). Here are some lessons from the things I took away from both the third episode of season 3 and just the whole series period so far…

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let’s talk about….as black people, we need to stop forcing religion down each others throats (or at least me)

If you were to ask me what my religion, I would tell you that I am Christian. What denomination specifically, baptist. However, it’s not because that what I indeed identify as and live my life, it is more so the fact that Christianity is my religious identity default because of the fact that religion — Christianity since we’re on the topic of race — is embedded in the DNA of African-American history, tradition and culture that it’s so hard to get away from as it still carries on to this day. Why? Blame it on the colonialism and American slavery.

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graduate school?: more torn than letoya in 2006

Now I look at my degree audit, and I see I’m 87% finished with my bachelors. As my undergraduate career will soon come to a close, I feel torn between the idea and challenge of furthering my education in graduate school and freedom of full-fledged adulthood and jumping into my career field. There is one side of me telling me to be finished with school forever, but the other hand is telling me saying challenge myself and obtain a masters. (It is a definite hell no for a Ph.D., I’ll let you know that)